Confident On The Outside, Terrified On The Inside. The Hidden Fear Stopping Men From Dating artwork
Love Machine with James Preece

Confident On The Outside, Terrified On The Inside. The Hidden Fear Stopping Men From Dating

  • E302
  • 31:38
  • March 9th 2026

What Happens When Fear Quietly Sabotages Men's Sex Lives?

This episode of The Love Machine dives deep into the world of sexual anxiety for men - a rarely discussed but hugely important topic. James Preece sits down with Alex Gear, an intimacy and anxiety coach for men, who isn’t afraid to get honest about his own journey with sexual anxiety and how he turned things around.

They explore why men often hide their worries behind confident exteriors, how unspoken societal pressure can lead to avoidance, and what really helps men break the cycle of sexual anxiety. Expect surprising stories, candid advice, and actionable tips both men and women will want to hear - perfect for anyone who wants to understand themselves or their partners better.

Ready to hear what happens behind closed doors and learn how changing your story can transform your love life? Tune in now for a genuinely hopeful and practical conversation about sexual anxiety - it’s honest, supportive, and maybe even the chat you didn’t know you needed.

About Alex

https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex/

https://www.alex-gear.com/

About James

James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

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